From the moment of birth people form their quality world.
This can be described as a picture album of what we value — what we would like to see from the external world.
- When what we perceive from the outside world matches or comes close to our picture we feel pleasure.
- We then choose a total behavior which includes an emotional response from mild satisfaction to ecstasy depending on the value we place on the experience.
PSYCHOLOGICAL NEEDS CHOICES TO MEET THEM
|Less Effective Choices||Needs||More Effective Choices|
|Depressing / Paining / Giving only to receive||Love / Belonging||Choosing to approach 1st /
Sharing/ Accepting others
|Angering / Powering /
Criticizing/ having to win
|Power||Making a plan to achieve /
Taking risks / into process
|Practicing self-denial /
Making excuses / trying to Change others
|Freedom||Making better decisions / Accepting responsibility|
|Drugging & drinking / acting irresponsible / waiting for others to make fun||Fun /
|Being a fun maker / seeing the world as a pleasurable place / learning|